Question: The first thing I noticed is that my boyfriend would wake up naked and have no recollection of it. I laughed it off thinking it was funny, and playfully called him a sleep stripper. That happened a couple times, which starting making me wonder what was going on after a while. Then one time he was talking out-loud very crudely like he was either having sex with someone or was wanting to have sex with whoever the someone was. I moved the covers and he had his erection in his hand. I was shocked. I told him about it and he was embarrassed. I usually wake up to this kind of thing; him kissing my arm shoulder to elbow, one time a random, sleep-educed peck to my pubic bone area over the covers, waking up cussing “f*ck f*ck f*ck, sh*t sh*t sh*t,” as he sits up calmly and then turns over, and of course the highly graphic and hurtful sex talk—stuff he never says in real life.But the other day was the worst. I woke to him saying “Mmm I want to F her, mm mmm mmmmmmmmmm!” a couple times in a row, then “I’m going to c*m 384956,0488-miles a minute…” I woke him up at that point very shocked and irritated and told him to quit having sex with people in his sleep.We talked about it the next day because I was concerned he has some sexual issues or perversions in his subconscious. He was very embarrassed and apologetic and was open about his masturbation habits. He said he does it once a day, which I thought was a lot (we don’t live together), and that he didn’t think he had any weird/abnormal perversions. He was molested when he was very young though, so this may be related somehow. And he’s told me things early in our relationship about his regular porn habits and some things I thought were disturbing like really being into anal in porn, which has haunted my brain ever since. All I know is I don’t like to hear this stuff come out of his mouth when he’s sleeping. It’s disturbing and I don’t want to be subjected to it. He’s very sweet and kind but he has some dark stuff lingering in that head.From my searching online it doesn’t look like there’s much that can be done, and I can’t find many accounts of it online either. Most searches pull up people actually engaging in real sex while sleep and not knowing it. I’d like to get to the bottom of why this happens and some kind of resolution so it can stop.